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How to Be an Exotic DancerA no-frills guide to becoming the ecdysiast of your dreams. Steps 1. Realise that this is a job, not a lifestyle. You must be motivated and driven as in any occupation. 2. Assess your fitness level. Are you in reasonable physical shape? You should be healthy, and while clubs are generally looking for someone slim and toned, there is room for all types of body shapes. 3. Get supplies. You will need 4-inch heels at a minimum. Many dancers start off with ones with platform heels. You'll also need a g-string or thong made of sturdy material. Make sure you are waxed from the neck down, shaving will NOT do, especially if you have darker hair. Nobody wants to see stubble, and waxing will eliminate razor bumps in the bikini area. You'll want to learn to apply makeup well. 4. Audition. You can call the club and ask to set up an appointment to audition or simply stroll into the club of your choice (check the Strip Club List online for clubs in your area)and off you go. Make sure you are of age to dance erotically in your district. 5. Know that prostitution, or "extras," has no place in a club. Moral judgments aside, it makes it harder for dancers to make money when this happens. 6. Be mentally strong. Our society can be very anti-sex worker, so you working in this field requires mental resilience. Customers will insult you, you may lose friends and family... but that reflects more on them than it does on you. 7. Be safe and enjoy the scantily clad adventure! 8. Get a website!!! Getting a website of your own can make you much more popular and raise your tip value. Mention the clubs where you work, and customers will come in just to see you, and they will save their biggest tips for your show. Tips * Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. * Visit a few clubs to get an idea of how things operate. * You're play-acting that you're a prospective fantasy date. Customers knowingly come to the clubs to be excited by seeing somebody dancing without clothes in a sexy way, and daydreaming about being with you. There is nothing wrong with that. * Get non-slip pads for the bottom of your shoes. * For using a safety razor when shaving, you may prefer a lubricant like Astro-glide to shaving cream. * White deodorant after pubic shaving lessens irritation. * Having your own car is recommended. Exotic dancers get sexually harassed by rude fans and openly insulted by conservative people on a public bus. * Do take a self-defense course for reasons described in the "Warnings" section. * Dancers make quite a bit of money, if they have good sales skills, are attractive and work the customers well. It is possible to make between 200-600 on average a night depending on where you are located. * When you go to your car or step out to smoke, make sure it's well-lit AND there is somebody you trust out there with you. * To discourage stalkers, ask for an enclosure of wood planks to be built for an outdoor smoking patio, with a table and a couple of chairs. * Do not list your PERSONAL email on your website. Hire a company who will set up a BUSINESS email for you. This way you can monitor all your fan letters. * Set up your business email with an auto respons or have your website company do it for you. Your fans expect you to be busy and that you may not be able to respond to everyone indivudually. An auto response can soften the blow of not getting a personal response back. Warnings * There are jobs that will reject you for having once been an exotic dancer, and you probably won't be able to conceal it from (for example) any private investigator worth a darn. If you choose this path, be aware that it may come with a future price. Don't expect to be able to simply leave it off a resume and therefore have it be forgotten. But, be open about it and it can't "haunt" you. * On very very rare occasions, an exotic dancer may be the target of a sexual predator. But so can a nurse, a receptionist, a restaurant server, or any lady who works with patrons in a manner that, ideally, requires them to be warm, personable, friendly and often subservient. To appear less like a prospective victim, conduct yourself with self-confidence when not onstage. * For the sake of your reputation and that of the club, avoid going off alone with an individual. Even if it's just your brother Mark, people will gossip and ruin your good name. Yes, every exotic dancer definitely has a good name to uphold. You may need the trust and help of your co-workers one day. Earn a reputation for responsibility by upholding the honor of the establishment. * Making more money as an exotic dancer may encourage you to change your lifestyle. You might move to a more expensive apartment, for instance. Make your decisions knowingly- if you change your lifestyle, you may be locking yourself in to this career. Be prepared for hard choices should you change your mind. * Prepare your mate for the possibility that you'll be making more money. There's no sure way to guarantee there won't be resentment because you're making more money for seemingly "playing around". It can come up unexpectedly, as something he/she "throws in your face" to hurt you. * Many exotic dancers are married or have a steady boyfriend with whom they live. That can give a safety cushion should you decide to change jobs after all. * Don't assume that because there's two or three people offering you a ride, that it's therefore perfectly safe. Sexual assault often takes place with multiple accomplices. When it does, illicit substances, i.e. narcotics, are usually involved. * Exotic dancers are considered, in most places, independent contractors. This means you should hire a tax accountant, keep all of your receipts (for waxing, work clothes, make-up, manicures and pedicures), and be sure that you keep track of your income. A notebook with a notation for each shift, the date, the hours and the amount of money you have made and paid out, is proof of income. * You should get health insurance, in case something unexpected happens. If you hurt a knee or ankle, or any other health expense, not only will you be out of work, you'll be responsible for your medical expenses. You're making enough money- just do it! How to shoot NUDES Sexy Photos So what kind of money will you be making? If you're dancing for shift pay in a blue collar "titty bar" you'll make about $150 a night. A go-go or "cage" dancer at a regular nightclub might make $200 a night but she'll be dancing almost all night. Some girls might prefer that- you don't have to work for tips or talk to the guys. A girl dancing for tips and drink commission in a nude club makes between $200 to $600. A pretty, well-spoken girl who knows the business will make between $400 to $800 at a topless "gown" club. (Gown club refers to a club like TENS were the girls wear gowns and the clientele is more upscale). A feature dancer whose done some magazine and movie work might make $1500 a night. These numbers are just a rough guide. They're based on my own experience exotic dancing in New York- earnings vary a lot from state to state. It also depends on the club, your verbal skills and your looks- in that order. Believe it or not the girls who make the most money stripping are rarely the prettiest. It's the ones who know how to tell the guys what they want to hear who make the real money. 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